Recognizing Narc's: On the path to self realization 4/9

Greetings, beautiful Souls! We have now made it to part four in our series dealing with narcs as we ascend to higher dimensions. For the past eight months, I've been exploring self-realization and self-actualization and their significance on the path. The quest for self-realization is a sacred journey which demands introspection, growth, and unwavering commitment. Along the way, however, there are obstacles that can easily mess with our progress. One such obstacle is the presence of narcissism, which can subtly infiltrate our thoughts, actions, and interactions.

Whether external (in the form of others) or internal (as it manifests within ourselves), narcissism is an energy that can block us from fully accomplishing our North Node destiny. It is so important to check yourself along your path; in that way, you are fully aware of your "why" in any given moment.

To understand how narcissism works, we can turn to two profound concepts: Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and the Scale of Emotional Consciousness as outlined by David Hawkins. These frameworks help us see the relationship between human needs, emotional states, and how narcissistic tendencies interfere our spiritual growth.

Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs: Where Narcissism Rises

So, on this path, I realized the tactics this group of people were using to tie me up and trap me in a web. It was literally Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs mixed with David Hawkins' Scale of Emotional Consciousness; they tie in together. Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs offers a blueprint of human motivation, emphasizing that our needs must be fulfilled in a progressive order. The basic levels of this pyramid include physiological needs, safety, love/belonging, and esteem, with self-actualization (our highest state of being) at the tippy top.

Narcissism primarily operates at the esteem and love/belonging levels. It often arises when an individual seeks validation, attention, or admiration from others rather than deriving a sense of self-worth from within. Ask yourself, do you seek love and connection outside of yourself at all times? Do you seek the company of others to feed your ego or wants? How do people respond to your boundaries and you to others? Narc's and these Narc groups want to create a sense of co-dependency which leads to a lack mindset.

When your sense of self is fragile, you will put up with a lot to have your needs met. Narcissists depend on external praise and validation, often projecting their insecurities onto you to weaken your foundation of belonging and esteem. That's going to be a no, only because it's easy to spot within the self and in others. Once we come to terms with this, the easier things will become. Having a sense of safety, stability, and independence without relying on others is a refuge in itself. By not attaching ourselves to anything, we accept that everything is interconnected.

On the path to living out your North Node, which is symbolic of your soul's purpose and ultimate self-realization, narcissism can derail your progress by keeping you fixated on superficial desires like status, validation, and external acknowledgment. Why be a label whore when you are the label, whore? I digress, at its core, narcissism keeps you stuck in an endless loop of trying to fill the lower needs of Maslow’s hierarchy, preventing you from transcending these to enter the realm of self-actualization, where true spiritual growth takes place. Please hear me out and live in your truth daily. Go within often and ask for Divine Guidance and Divine Strategies; it is imperative to your existence. Moving forward.

The Scale of Emotional Frequency: The Narcissistic Low Vibration

Narcs are the epitome of the third dimension, and below this is where they thrive and operate efficiently without real emotions or connections with others. You may have noticed nouns don't fit how they used to because of your growth and choosing to elevate beyond the third dimension, as you realize the emotions you may have had or shared were an experience used as a catalyst for your self-realization. There's usually a certain type of person (from an energy realm assigned to stop and block you) that you have to avoid like the plague because of their attachment to things of this world and their mission to block you. These people usually write their life and do not truly live it due to keeping up with the Joneses (such as social norms and similar factors.)

Emotional intelligence is explained so eloquently in the sense of frequency by David Hawkins. David Hawkins’ Emotional Scale of Consciousness is an inTvaluable tool for understanding the emotional states that influence our actions and decisions. The scale ranges from shame (the lowest frequency) to enlightenment (the highest), and each emotional state affects the vibration at which we operate. Narcissism, at its core, is tied to low-frequency emotions such as pride and anger emotions that are often triggered by a need to defend one’s fragile sense of self.

On Hawkins’ scale, pride sits at a frequency of 175, which is just above desire and fear. When we are operating from a place of pride, we are often driven by ego, defensiveness, and the need to feel superior to others. Pride comes before the fall, and desire and fear make the fall that much more uncomfortable. Narcissism, in its purest form, is a manifestation of this low frequency. Those who exhibit narcissistic traits are often trying to convince others of their self-worth because, internally, they lack a solid sense of self. They are caught in a cycle of validation seeking, which is inherently a low-vibration frequency.

Self-realization requires moving beyond pride and entering higher emotional frequencies. In conversations where the other person seeks conflict instead of resolution, they may deflect blame and speak ill of you. Don't waste time defending yourself to someone intent on misunderstanding. Let them talk; move on. Having the courage and humility to admit you're at fault is a huge step in evolving and graduating into your superior self. Courage (frequency 200) marks the point where personal empowerment begins, and love (frequency 500) represents unconditional acceptance. To truly align with your North Node, you must transcend the pride-based vibration of narcissism and rise into these higher frequencies. It's not easy, but it's doable.

I've created a How to Recognize and Overcome Narcissism on the Path to Your North Node 1,2 in the Free-source hub. Check it out when you get time. Thank youuuu!

Final Thoughts - Self Realization is key

It is apparent that we are being fed narcissism throughout our lives and must choose if we will eat from its table or remove ourselves and clear our senses along the way. Doing the work is the ultimate goal of the entity and its cohorts. The path to self-realization is not without its challenges, but with awareness and intention, we can overcome the influence of this narcissistic society overall. Recognizing it within yourself and others is the first step in freeing yourself from its grip.

Paying attention to the subtlety of it and seeing beyond the veil regularly will save your life. By embracing vulnerability, raising your emotional frequency, and transcending the need for external validation, you align with your higher self and step into the fulfillment of your North Node destiny. Enjoy the journey, and try not to become stagnated by these things designed by bad built and friends.

In the end, true self-realization comes when we release the ego and embrace the divine flow of love, connection, and inner knowing. Your North Node is waiting, and the path is clearer than you think just let go of narc's and their traits, and walk with faith.

I’d love to hear your thoughts; Have you experienced narcissism blocking your spiritual growth, either from others or within yourself? What tools or practices have helped you overcome these egoic obstacles?

Share your experiences, reflections, or any questions you might have in the comments below. Together, we can uplift one another on this sacred journey toward self-realization!