Greetings, once more on this cold and wet day! We've finally made it to part three in this series, and what a time to be alive. Narcissism and its effect on empaths can serve as a profound spiritual lesson, triggering growth, awareness, and transformation. If handled right you can become more empowered than words can explain. You shift from the 3D to the 5D and beyond if you handle your associations with them accordingly.
For empaths, who are highly attuned to others’ emotions, the connection with a narcissist can be a challenging catalyst for spiritual evolution. Below, I will outline some of the lessons, focusing on the North and South Node (my favorite discussion), and how empaths should navigate this process. I'm not a licensed psych doctor, but I am a licensed traditional metaphysician. Let's get it! Let's go.
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Understanding the Narc’s Role in your evolution
I know you have heard the saying, crabs in a bucket. Well that is their way of life their job is to pull you down to their level or lower and keep you their as long as they can. They dwell in the 3d and operate in collaboration with those below them. It may seem they are higher than they are because so many of our spiritual leaders, authority figures, etc can indeed be the crabs.
Stop wiping the mirror; it is as clean as it's gone get. No need to try and wipe the blemish from another when you have your own to doctor, tf. Any who, coming across one is not random, as I'm sure some of you have witnessed. They can be seen as opportunities for deep soul level growth, pushing the empath to confront their own emotional patterns, vulnerabilities, and desires.
They literally assist you with exiting the 3rd dimension for good. Just because you can go back to the 3rd dimension doesn't mean you should. In the same way, there are levels to spirits, angels, and those over there. We must stick to our own energetic matches, or we risk being dragged in the mud and dirty for what? Moving forward.
Sidebar: If you have ever called a person a narc, psychopath, etc., to their face 👀, the energy shifts immediately, even if they do maintain their overall foundation. The coal-black eyes will make the hair on the back of your neck stand and pluck itself from your skin.
The Role of the South Node: Codependency
You've met them before, and that's the trickiest thing about monitoring spirits, spirit spouses, or any form of bullying. It follows you, as we are assigned a guardian angel on both sides. Let that sink in. The South Node represents the past, our comfort zone and patterns of behavior that we need to leave behind. For empaths, this often connects to codependency - the need to fix others, seeking validation through others' feelings, or avoiding conflict. Narc's can trigger these patterns, pulling empaths into unhealthy dynamics where they give more than they get.
The South Node is a tricky little boy as he is filled with all types of things that were mastered in a past life. It's like a book from the shelf of your Akashic Records with all that you brought into this lifetime, which can be used to accomplish the task of your North Node. Oh, but what about all the things you don't remember from the South? That's the conflicting beauty of meeting these things. They bring out the best in you even if it feels or appears to be a shitstorm.
When a narc comes into your life, they see the shining light of your potential resting in your North Node, and that is their attraction. They actually see you in all your glory and you have yet to experience all of your life story. These bottom-dwelling, backward-built, Venus Fly-Trap, third-dimensional, dark-eyed, cock-sucking serpents covet and want to destroy, distract, deter, and decompose whatever they can't have or will never own.
The Laws That Govern You + rants
If you haven't attended my Laws That Govern You class, here's a brief explanation of how to take key words and phrases from your natal chart to create affirmations. What you tell yourself will become true faster than if anyone else tells you. There are several other methods of creating and using the Laws That Govern You template, like having an ancestral reading, trance meditation to receive a specific download, guided meditation to connect with you guardian, the 48 Laws of Power, or what has worked since you were a child may still be a pillar of strength in your life now.
It is important to remember that what governs you may be silly or a threat to another. Either way, that's their business. Your laws do affect who you are in contact with in this realm and the others. Keep that in mind. We outgrow some of our ancestors the same way we outgrow people in this realm. I told a story about 5 or so years ago about how part of my spiritual awakening came with some hating ass ancestors that did not believe in me coming into this arena.
They must be used to ice-skating because they slid their asses on after so long. It was a *mirrored battle and was reflected in my earthly life because, at the same time, I was breaking free of and away from my then-present family members. Whew. It happened again a year or so ago. Clock it!
If you are over the age of 25, you should know what many of your triggers are, what your goals are in life, and what to look out for when dealing with certain types of people. These things usually appear throughout your life as you continue to level up on your journey of evolution. You will also notice there are levels to narcissism as the scale slides and glides. However, there is always a pattern.
For instance, if what you have to evolve from in your South Node has to do with any of the following, you should have a set of laws that personally govern you. Their behavior might trigger your tendency to over give, to seek approval, or to neglect your own needs for the sake of someone else. Narc's manipulation tactics (such as gaslighting, love-bombing, and emotional withdrawal) can destabilize an empath, leading to confusion and self-doubt. This is where the South Node lessons come into play - to evolve spiritually, empath's must move away from these tendencies, learning to stand firm in their boundaries, trust their instincts, and honor their needs.
where ARTS start: Example
The Law of Self-Worth and Validation
🗝️Affirm : I am enough, I am valuable, I am worthy, I am confident and capable
The Law of Boundaries
🗝️Affirm: I honor and uphold my boundaries; the highest love and light surround me.
The Law of Emotionally Clarity
🗝️Affirm: I am perfectly balanced emotionally, and any water that leaks from me spreads out like the sea.
The Law of Self Care and Healing
🗝️ Affirm: I prioritize filling my cup and discern who can get a gulp.
The Law of Empowered Detachment
🗝️Affirm: I stand firmly on my 360-degree axis with one foot on the pivot. I speak it and live it.
I hadn't planned to take this direction with the blog today, yet here we are. Never violate your own laws, or you might face serious consequences. It's wise to understand which principles are flexible and which are not. Since people can only meet you as far as they have met themselves, it's crucial to have your own laws. Bad-built and friends might attempt to sow seeds of destruction that grow over time. Stay firm in YOUR beliefs, ready to adapt if necessary.
Lesson's = Blessing's
Before I roll up out of here, just remember: everything happens for a reason. Life’s challenges, especially when it comes to navigating relationships with narc's, are often the soul's way of pushing us to evolve. So, take a moment to reflect on how these encounters have helped you grow.
The dance between narcissists and empaths is far more than just a one-off encounter; it’s a deep, soul-level lesson. By moving through the process, breaking free from the South Node’s traps and embracing the wisdom of your North Node. These lessons aren’t curses; they are blessings, showing you how to honor your needs while navigating the complexities of relationships, both human and beyond.
If this 1,2 to-do resonated with you, share your thoughts in the comments below. I'd love to hear how you've navigated similar experiences or what lessons you’ve learned. And if you know someone who needs to hear this, don’t keep it to yourself-sharing is caring. Sometimes, the right words at the right time can change everything. Stay grounded and keep evolving, dah'ling!
*mirrored battle is where The ancestors' energy mirror's the family in real time. For instance, if there is a sense of division, miscommunication, or unresolved emotional conflict in the family, the ancestors’ spiritual presence might take on roles or behaviors that reflect this current state. Perhaps an ancestor who passed away under unresolved conditions is now acting in a way that reflects the unresolved emotions or tensions still present in the family, almost like they are "acting out" their unfinished business in the spirit realm, mirroring what is happening on Earth. And they had me fucked up. 1 D, 2 D, it's 3 D... hell naw!
Wow LuLu thank you 🙏🏾🌻 In hindsight I’m reviewing how and when it all started and when I felt myself allowing the narc to over power me and project all their bs in the relationship for me to deal with. They will always reveal their true face which looks like that image you put up lol. The narc helped me to add and solidify 2 new laws that govern me. So I thank you for the lesson that will only make me stronger. 💪🏾🩷💞
Thank you...