Why I Don’t Play With Energy Just to Get What I Want

Greetings Mr./Miss. You Got What It Takes To Make Life Great(er), mkayyyyy! I stopped by per our conversation on live yesterday on the Tube. I want to discuss how we use what we have to get what we want and not abusing our authority as the young and gifted. Here's the truth about spiritual manipulation and high-vibing attraction and i'll try and keep it short and cute.

So boom. Let’s talk about it. You ever light a candle, say a prayer, slap on some oil, and call in another person... only for a chaos agent to show up in disguise? Yeah. Me too. And baby, the gag is sometimes the spell works too well.

This post ain’t just about oils. It’s about alignment, integrity and knowing the difference between manifesting love and straight-tf-up spiritual manipulation.

Let’s get into it.

The Oil That Did Too Much

I used this oil and said I wanted a high-value man. You know the type, emotionally intelligent, established, smells good, chivalrous, intelligent, etc.

I put the oil on. I set my intention. And whew, chile. The universe delivered... but it served me a man with all the outer perks and zero inner foundation. Looked like a king and acted like a warning label on a box of Borax.

Turns out, I got what I was vibrating with, not what I thought I wanted. I received what I wanted to see, but as an empath, it wasn't a reality ya' girl was ready for. That part.

Control Ain’t The Same As Power

Let me say this plain. Using spiritual tools to try and control someone else’s actions or feelings is not manifestation. That’s manipulation. And let’s be honest, it’s giving desperate, it's giving imbalanced, it's giving shadow work needed, it's giving greed and not divinity.

Control is loud and barks like a Chihuahua behind a privacy fence . True power is quiet, wise, and natural. And aligned energy doesn’t need to beg, push, or force a damn thing.

When you try to bend someone’s will to match your fantasy, the timeline you’re on gets shaky and feeds the creature in your mind that wishes to grow and overcome you. The results may come fast, but they rarely last. Why? Because anything built on shaky energetic ground is gonna fall apart... eventually. Give it time.

Enter Shut Up and Kiss Me Oil

The Shut Up and Kiss Me ain’t about trapping, kidnapping, or pimp blasting nobody. It’s about you walking in the room like you already know you’re the main character. It's an amplifier; it delivers exactly what you desire.. It's an attraction oil. If you use it for manipulating someone else, it won't protect you due to the intense Jupiter and Mars influence it holds.

This ain’t some love jinx potion. This is an attraction oil rooted in self-confidence, energetic glow-ups, and magnetic presence. When you wear it, the world notices. But the catch is, it amplifies you. So you gotta be sure your energy is clean and your intentions are grown. You feel me?

How to Stay Outta Spiritual Trouble

Here’s how to work your attraction oil and your energy like a Pay The Cost to Be The Boss, not a Bad Built and Friends Bottom Dwelling Bully:

1. Get clear before you get cute by not setting intentions when you’re mad, lonely, or thirsty. Clean your energy, work on your blocks and hold yourself accountable first. Then set the vibe for tribe.

2. Use your voice like you mean it by speaking what you want, not who you want. “Aligned love that sees me, values me, respects me” hits harder than naming an Archetype that may not be your type (see story above.)

3. Watch your energy, not just your words. You can say all the right things, but if your vibe is anxious or forceful, you’ll attract more confusion. Keep it sweet, not sticky... Miss Vickie.

4. Let the Oil do what it do! Once you anoint yourself, let go. Don’t stalk the outcome. Don’t press and go live your life like it’s already yours.

5.Choose the timeline that honors you and is the best representation of what is in your design. Every time you choose aligned intention over shady tactics, you quantum leap. That’s facts.

Manifestation That Respects Free Will Hits Different

You don’t need to manipulate to attract or receive whats in the books of Destiny for you. You don’t need to force to receive what's already sitting in the astral for you. You don’t need to play spiritual tug-of-war with the universe.

You just need to show up in your fullness. Say what you mean,and mean what you pray. And let tools like Shut Up and Kiss Me amplify what’s already real in you.

So yes, the oil is potent. Yes, it turns heads. Yes, it shifts energy. But it’s not here to do your shadow work for you. You still gotta mean what you magnetize and be ready for what that entails.

When used with clarity, charm, and some sage-folk discernment, this oil becomes your secret weapon for soft power. Because when your energy is right, the world moves different around you. Period.

Ready to amplify what you are already working with? The oil is waiting. And this time, it’s going to serve you what you’re really ready for. Drop a comment below and let me know your thoughts. There was no way I could express all of what I wanted to convey due to time restrictions.